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Mum’s agonising decision to delay cancer treatment at 16 weeks pregnant

Written by on 08/11/2020

A mum who made the agonising decision to delay cancer treatment when she found it could harm an unborn baby has given birth – and been given the all-clear.

Ellie Whittaker, 21, was diagnosed with stage two Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in October 2019 when she was 16 weeks pregnant with her little girl, Connie Marriott, now eight months.

Having previously suffered a miscarriage, Ellie was determined to carry on with the pregnancy – despite being advised to undergo an abortion.

Medics told her it wasn’t safe for her to undergo chemotherapy whilst she was expecting – as the treatment could harm her unborn child.

But rather than terminate her little girl, Ellie decided to continue with the pregnancy and give birth before she started chemotherapy – giving the disease the opportunity to develop and get worse.

Her daughter, Connie, arrived by c-section on March 18 2020, weighing 6lbs 12oz, at Jessops Wing in Sheffield.

But just a week later a scan revealed that Ellie’s cancer had progressed to stage three.

Ellie underwent 12 rounds of chemotherapy and she was finally given the all-clear two weeks after her final scan in October 2020.

The mum-of-one didn’t have many symptoms apart from a lump in her neck and feeling ‘exhausted’.

Ellie, a full-time mum, from Bolsover, Chesterfield, said: “There was no chance on this planet I was going to abort my baby.

“I pushed the cancer as far from my mind and focused on Connie – I couldn’t wait to be a mum.

“One week after giving birth, I went for a scan and discovered it had progressed to stage three.

“I lived with it for so long it’s weird that it’s finally gone – I can’t believe it.

Ellie Whittaker after she gave birth to her daughter Connie at the Jessop Wing in Sheffield
(Image: © Ellie Whittaker / SWNS)

“I don’t regret my decision and I’d make the same one again given the choice.”

After suffering a miscarriage in April 2019, Ellie started feeling really run down and developed a viral infection.

When a lump appeared in her neck, she went to the GP and underwent tests in July 2019.

It was around the same time that Ellie and her fiancé, Kieran Marriott, 22, a scaffolder, found out they were expecting another baby.

She said: “I didn’t know I was pregnant but losing the baby made us realise we were ready to start a family.

“I was so exhausted and catching lots of chest infections – I thought it was down to stress and recently losing my granddad.

“I was so sleepy I accidentally fell asleep in a meeting when I worked for the post office.

“When the lump appeared the doctor thought it was tonsillitis but I knew it was something else.”

After going back and forth with the GP for the next month, Ellie was eventually referred to Chesterfield Royal Hospital, Derbyshire, in August 2019 for a scan and then a biopsy on the lump.

In October 2019, when Ellie was 16 weeks pregnant, she was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma by the Macmillan Cancer Unit.

Ellie had to start chemotherapy for her cancer shortly after giving birth to her daughter
(Image: © Ellie Whittaker / SWNS)

An MRI confirmed it was stage two and Ellie was given the choice to delay her treatment or abort her unborn baby.

“I didn’t have any other symptoms apart from being tired – I couldn’t believe it,” Ellie said.

“The doctor advised I have an abortion because cancer treatment could cause problems for the baby.

“There was no way I was going to give her up so I chose to delay it.”

Ellie was referred to the Royal Hallamshire Hospital in Sheffield, where she was scanned every two weeks until she underwent a planned c-section at 37 weeks.

Doctors planned to start Ellie’s treatment at 27 weeks but decided she was doing well enough to wait until after the birth.

“They had only ever looked after one pregnant lady with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma,” she said.

“But I tried not to think about it – I wanted my pregnancy to be as normal as possible.”

Connie Marriott, now eight months old
(Image: © Ellie Whittaker / SWNS)

Ellie gave birth to Connie on March 18 2020, weighing 6lbs 12oz, and she started treatment almost immediately after.

She said: “I tried to spend as much time with Connie as I could before I started.

“I remember crying and thinking I wouldn’t be able to be there for her.

“I knew the chemotherapy would take its toll.

“But when they scanned me the cancer had progressed to stage three – it had spread to my stomach and spleen.”

During her fourth round of chemotherapy, Ellie underwent a scan and discovered she was responding well to treatment and could drop one of the drugs she was taking.

The mum-of-one underwent 12 gruelling rounds of chemotherapy and finished in September 2020.

Ellie underwent a final PET scan in October 2020 and doctors broke the exciting news that there were no signs of cancer and it was unlikely to return.

She said: “Everyone’s supported me in many ways.

“I had to wait two weeks for the results from my final scan which was agony.

“I’m so pleased it’s gone and I can focus on being a mum.

“Kieran’s been incredible and cares for Connie whenever I’ve got hospital appointments.

“Connie’s an amazing baby – she started teething and trying to sit-up.

“She’s the quietest baby and sleeps through the night.

“I wouldn’t change her for the world.”